When someone has died

What to do when someone dies

Take the next small step. We will walk you through the first hours and days, plainly and without pressure — and help you write something to remember them by.

Create a memorial for the person you love

Start with their name. It is free, takes a minute, and no account is needed.

If you are not sure where to begin

Most of what feels urgent can wait. Here is the shape of the days ahead.

  1. Right now

    The first 24 hours

    Only a few things truly need to happen today. Take them one at a time.

  2. Over the coming days

    The first week

    Once the immediate hours have passed, these are the steps that tend to come next.

  3. In the weeks ahead

    The first month

    There is no rush on these. Work through them as you have the energy.

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